Monday morning - hope you all had a wonderful weekend. I spent mine siteseeing and researching. Researching body parts....emotions...feelings...more body parts. It was fun. Hell who am I kidding, it was amazing. Amaze-balls as some of the kids today say. FOcusing this week on ORAL skills. I used to write a column once for AET, ADult Entertainment Today. IT was of course smutty in nature, why not. So I had people writing in about oral sex - and my very first question was if one partner refuses to go down....let's say a woman refuses to give her man a blowjob. He said he felt like he shold not have to go down on her, it was only fair. I of course was a smart ass and off the wall and agreed with him, what's good for the goose and all that but today my opinion changes. I believe even if one person was not comfortable doing that, I don't think it should stop the other person of providing that mate with an undying pleasure. We are aiming to please each other, not make sure all of the bedroom rules are fair. This isn't a game, it isn't a war, it is two sexual beings and learning each other and experiencing and sharing. I am fortunate in this department and have NO problems providing or receiving. :-) What are your opinions? ANother poll on oral skills - tongue jewelry or no? Does it REALLY make a difference? I have my tongue pierced and I got it pierced for the decoration, NOT for the oral skills. I like my little tongue rings. It's Monday, I should be working. Have a deliscious day. Eat a snack for lunch, like peaches...peaches are always good. xoxox ~S~