To the Parents

This is to the parents. Not the parents of babies sleeping soundly in their cribs. The parents of toddlers who can get up on their own and come to your room. The parents of middle school kids who can hear through walls. And to the parents of teenagers, well, who know what's going on. Having sex while there are kids around can be tricky. It is not impossible. It can be done. It should be done. No mom or dad should be deprived just because there are kids around. If they are in bed like they are supposed to be and you know how to be quiet, it will be fine. Now there are different levels of having to be quiet. When you are making out, or during foreplay...when you are both getting heated up, you keep the moans and gasps, the oohs and ahhs out of the picture. Gasp silently with your mouth closed. keep your mouth full. That always works. With each other. Now, when you are having oral sex performed on you, when you are the receiver, that is one of the hardest parts to be quiet on. I always think it is good to have a blanket close to your mouth. In case you need to bite down, keep your mouth full, because obviously, his is, or hers is. Grab sheets, headboards, pillows, whatever you have to. I use a blanket if I am laying on my back.....yeah. Teeth grinding in the blanket works good. Now the actual act of sex, actual intercourse and raw fucking - it is still possible to be quiet. It is fun, the adrenaline, the concentration it takes to NOT make the sounds you normally do, especially when he or she feels so goddamn good. And orgasms? Well, let's just say my better half is lucky I don't have nails. My hands do the talking when I have to be quiet, and during an orgasm or three.....um, ya. Whew. :-) Try it out, see what works best for you!!! SSshhhh Sarah